From the files of the Ashley Madison Agency. Do you suspect that your significant other is cheating on you? If you think yes, and you are wondering if you should end your relationship or even marriage? Well, this feeling is completely natural, but, before you decide to take the next step and ask for a divorce, it’s important to be positive that your spouse really is cheating on you. The good news is that you finding out is a lot easier than you or anyone else may think. In fact, here are 5 easy steps that you can do to find out or catch a cheating spouse, or in some cases not get caught yourself.
1 – The Most Obvious Is Follow Them
Following a suspecting cheating spouse is the easiest way to catch them in the act. But you will have to choose your method and time wisely. As an example, discretely following your wife or husband when they say that they’re going out with some friends or working late.
If you decide to follow them, be extra careful when doing so. The last thing that you don’t want is to get caught. If you do get caught, you will be the one who will then be on the hot seat. Also, make sure that you don’t put yourself in any potentially dangerous situations.
2 – You Can Hire a Private Investigator
Hiring a private investigator can be costly, but is an easy way to catch a cheating spouse. For many suspecting partners, it’s also a safer approach. What you’ll need to do is provide the private investigator with information about your spouse, such as recent pictures, description, where they work, their daily schedule etc. The private investigator will follow your wife or husband to get the proof that you need, including pictures etc.
The downside to hiring a private investigator to catch a cheater is the cost, but you may find it is worth it. If you are looking to get a divorce, the pictures or video evidence that your PI gets will be enough proof and will be very valuable to you.
3 – Check Their Cell Phone Activity
Since many cheating spouses obviously don’t want to get caught, many avoid using their home phones, but instead use their cell phone. If your wife or husband has a cell phone, try to get access to it. Most cell phones will keep accurate records of recent calls sent or received, or text messages sent or received. Check to see if there’s anything suspicious.
Also, along with checking the cell phone itself, get hold of the cell phone bill as well. Most cell phone companies will itemize each and every phone number and messages that are received. But on the other hand, if you are married, you have the option to change the billing format of your cell phone bill, to include or not include details of your cell phone activity.
4 – Research Using The Internet
Use the internet to catch a cheating spouse, you also have a few options. For starters, it’s an excellent research tool. You can find ways to catch someone cheating by knowing the common signs that most cheaters show, the mistakes that they make, and so on. You can also use the internet to find a private investigator.
The internet may also be used to catch your unfaithful spouse in action. In fact, the internet makes it a lot easier for people to cheat, so many do so online. Examine the history of your computer. Is there secret hidden folders filled with pornographic images or websites, online dating websites, or social networking sites? Or has the cache and history of your computer been recently cleared?
5 – Keep Your Eyes / Ears Open
Finally, keep your eyes and ears open. Doing so is the easiest way to find a cheating spouse. If your wife or husband is a bit brave or daring, they may even flaunt their secret affair right in front of you. Also, it is important to remember that people like to gossip. Do you hear your co-workers, neighbors, friends or family members whispering about your cheating partner? If so, start listening.