What we’re told is to find a relationship in life, to become full-fledged adults, then marry and have kids. Hopefully, the romance leads to intimacy, then our lives become complete. But most relationships are rarely perfect, traumatic, leaving psychological scars needing emotional healing.
This is the reality of life, and not snippets from a fairy tale book which begins with “Once upon a time.”
People are hardly ever perfect, we’re often mysterious beings from a life gone wrong. We carry shady baggage, protecting ourselves from further damage.
So be careful …