What it takes is a leap of faith, a jump that most refuse to take. This can be habitual situations where they obey to routine, and then get lost in the trap of doing things the same way as yesterday, to procrastinate, promising to do things differently, but won’t.
What the majority show are these traces early in life, as some just simply can’t leave or refuse to leave a relationship, because it’s safe and secure, so regardless of how bad or volatile it becomes, it still feels familiar, so …