They can come across as being charismatic and convincing, the drama queens among us. They’ll draw you into their personal emergency web and attention issues. They’ll ask for your help, they want you to help in solving their distress, so of course you do.
They know they’ve got you hooked. They’ll then present another problem, then another until you finally realize that for them, manufacturing problems is a way for them to get attention. What they’re looking for is an audience, using their urgent demands to control you.
By you …