The social objective for most is to be genuinely liked by as many people as possible. This to unconditionally attract those who they come in contact with. To be likable, socially attractive and desirable, and some will do anything they can to make this happen.
But despite their most sincere efforts, they end up glued as a wallflower as they’re a ghost in a crowded room. They want to increase their popularity, but even their friends and family avoid them. Their personality and attitude just isn’t conduit to being liked …