We are conditioned to live in a world of fierce competition, so we think, and it’s a highly valued trait for achievement, which is usually tied directly to personal growth, and heightening one’s self esteem.
Both women and men will compete on a daily basis for and with each other, developing the false belief that every value, every event is a strict competition, where there are only two outcomes, to either win or to lose.
For most of us, either of these two outcomes also don’t come that easy, as …