We are conditioned to live in a world of fierce competition, so we believe it’s a highly valued trait for achievement and success. We think it’s important for personal growth and heightening our self esteem. To beat out our adversaries, friends, siblings or foe.
As a result, we all compete on a daily basis for and with one another, developing this false belief.
We think every confrontation, every event is a strict competition, with one winner and one loser. Where you come out ahead or face defeat.
For most, either of these outcomes also doesn’t come easy, as what they’ll do is hide other variations of danger.
For instance, for some, what winning means is someone may dislike you, and losing can carry with it the inevitability of you hating yourself.
Why is it we decide when it’s okay to compete, and when it can become a hazard.
When is it healthy to do so, and when do you know it’s not important enough or worth it.
Competition Is Ingrained From Our Childhood
For the majority of individuals, their particular competitive spirit and decisions, go back to their childhood experiences.
Sibling rivalry is always a big factor, fighting for that gleaming attention from their parents. “Look mom, I’m the best child.”
We as children will inevitably feel resentment towards each other, towards those who gets all the attention, while those who don’t care gets the freedom.
The Need To Create Instead Of Compete
What this strict competition does is it promotes individuals to fight among themselves. We go up against each other to get what we want.
The problem is, we’re fighting for that same limited space, that same piece of pie. If you’re creative, you just go bake another pie.
So why not think out of the box instead, stop competing with everyone else and begin creating your own vision.
Instead of fighting, getting boxed in and competing with others, why not create your own reality.
Once you’ve created your own space, then you can call it your own, it’s yours to keep.
You’ve then stepped away from the crowd, away from the masses who compete, and found a way to develop your own space that has no competition.
Become A Creator And Not A Competitor
You’re not going to get what you want by trying to beat out others. The attraction process doesn’t work by taking things away from them.
So stop annoying everyone, stop competing, never be deceitful, or drive hard bargains. Instead, learn to cooperate.
Focus more on the things that serve, whatever they may be, and bring them to life. Become a creator and not a competitor.
The Creative Thinking Process
Don’t go pounding on others, but instead build something and then share it. This isn’t about outlasting others or proving your point, for your own good or glory.
This isn’t about wanting to overpower others, trying to prove you’re better, to seek more attention.
It’s about all of the good things which you can create and bring into your life, all by your own effort.
All you’re doing is working in harmony with the formless substance that you’ve created, and not competing for.
Then Express Your Gratitude
Always give your complete gratitude once you’ve receive the vision which you created.
As soon as you do this, you’ll feel absolutely great, and at calm with yourself. You’ll feel the most centered you’ve ever been.
There is a fundamental rule of the universe which states, for every action you take, it leads to an equal and opposite reaction.
What you’re doing is putting this rule into effect to generate what you want.
Just Show The Love
Once you give your gratitude in advance, what you’re doing is promoting and compelling that vision to become a reality.
There may be times when you’re in doubt. That you’re not quite certain it’s working for you, or if it ever will.
Once these situations arise, the only thing you can do is express gratitude.
What you’ll feel is your confidence will come flowing back to you. You’ll begin to feel great once again, that you’re on the right path you should be on.
A Competitive Or A Creative Mindset
Determine in everything you do, if you are currently in a competitive or a creative mindset.
Know if you’re inventing new passages in your life by being creative, or fighting with everyone on a competitive plane.
What you need to do is know the steps to create a basic success formula, if you’re interested in attracting more love and prosperity into your life.
The best core concept is adapting your mindset to do things in a certain way, which is to be creative.
The Competitive World
The competitive mind is a place where most currently reside in, for the majority of their daily life, and think everyone else is thinking the same way.
It’s the belief everything is scarce, times are tough, and about to get tougher. That there must only be a winner and a loser.
There’s a natural sense of paranoia in everything you think and do, as you trust no one.
When you think in the competitive mindset, the focus is usually exclusively on yourself and nobody else.
You’re completely focused on how you will benefit, stand out, or stand to gain. It’s all about you and what’s in it for you. Your ego gets fed first.
You’re not focused on others or what they’re thinking. You’re always looking out for number one, always for yourself, to get the result you want.
Develop A Creative Mind Instead
Having a creative mindset, is a world that’s in complete harmony with the natural state of what’s happening. Were all connected and working in unison, and not against one another.
What doing so operates on is from a dimension of love, purpose and infinite abundance, increasing the benefit of everyone involved.
The creative mindset, is focused completely on helping and serving others first.