There are various reasons, why we humans are instinctively attracted to other humans. How the modern man attracts women, is a far more complex process. The reason being that women are pickier, and infinitely more perceptive than men are. Women are more stringent, on who they’re attracted to.
Whenever women evaluate men, how handsome he is, isn’t as important as how pretty a woman is for men. What the man initially looks for, is physical attractiveness. So the selection process, on how men and women are attracted to each other, …
As superficial as it may sound, what women will do is initially judge you on how you look, your physical appearance. So if you’re not exactly that good looking, then what you need is a secondary plan, which is to be refined verbally. To have a firm grasp of the art of the speak.