Self-esteem and worthiness has now gone digital. Many will post what they think is a brilliant image, update, video, selfie, or a share, then hold their breath in anticipation hoping that someone “likes” their post. Then they feel empowered once someone does.
They feel that they’re hip, that they’re relevant, funny and interesting, and not a boring aloof dunce. That they’re one of the cool kids.
Then there’s the feeling of dejection, failure, if they don’t get a single like. What’s wrong with me? Doesn’t no one like or care …
Self-esteem has now gone digital. Many will post what they think is a brilliant image, update, video, selfie, or a “share,” then hold their breath in anticipation, hoping that someone “likes” their post. Then they feel empowered by it. They feel that they’re hip, that they’re relevant, funny and interesting, and not a boring aloof dunce.
What we’re all wanting is to feel better about ourselves, but for some of us, the way that we attempt to do so is completely wrong. We continuously go down the same wrong path which won’t produce any positive self-esteem which is productive.