What we all want is to live a clear clean crisp life with no regrets. A transparent slate as the decades and the memories pile up as we enter our twilight years. What we don’t want is endlessly waiting until tomorrow, hoping that’s the day things will get better.
The problem is we think there’s more time than there actually is. As one day, we’ll wake up realizing we no longer can’t do the things we’ve done or wanted to do.
We’ll then begin listing the goals we’ve achieved, while …
The protocol goes something like this. We go to school, get the best education we can, which translates into getting the highest paying job. We then exert sweat equity after finding this decent paying job, work hard, all to save for and hopefully enjoy a safe relaxing quiet retirement.
But what happens is the majority of us will fail life for a variety of reasons, as we hit rut after rut.
Decades ago, working for a living meant working for a company for 50 years. To hold a safe secure …
Life is full of surprises, it’s a roller coaster of ups and downs, which occasionally hits us broadside out of left field, leaving us devastated. As the saying goes, if anything can go wrong it will. Once things do happen to get out of hand, it can throw us off balance as we begin to doubt our stability.
All we want is things to go well, that things will go in our favour. We want to be “winners” in life, to come out ahead, but life is hardly fair.
Bad …
What your true purpose in life carries, are unique characteristics only special to you. This blueprint of your life is hopefully a phenomenal one, which is so individual you and only you can carry it out. It’s your life and your responsibility to fulfill your destiny.
What you need to beware of about your destiny, is there will always be those close to you who will chime in, with good intentions or not.
These includes your parents and educators, friends and siblings who’ll contribute their input and insight.
Before deciding …
One of the biggest personal fears, this regardless of how successful one becomes, is they don’t feel adequate, that they feel like a phony. This from all walks of life, from leaders of industry proficient at their jobs, to hard working mothers rearing outstanding children.
They feel like they’re a fraud, not genuine and don’t deserve what they’ve achieved in life. Some refer to this as the Imposter Syndrome, where successful people are unable to accept themselves or their accomplishments, like they’re faking it through life.
They think that deep …