We’re all conditioned to be as nice a person as possible, to be pleasant, to make it a highlight feature of our personality. There are even health benefits to being a nice warm inviting person, rather than being mean spirited. What being likeable can do, is increase your profile when in social settings.
What’s known is leaders in the workplace who projects themselves to be warm and sincere, will earn more accolades and trust, than working with a prickly demanding slave driver.
But the debate lies on where to draw …