Not succeeding when attempting to do something can be unsettling, a demoralizing experience that no one wants to go through. Although it’s true that you can’t control every event that happens in your life, what you can control is how you react to them.
What not succeeding does is it tricks you into thinking that things aren’t possible. So unless you learn how to respond to not succeeding in adaptive ways, what they’ll tend to do is paralyze you, demotivate and demoralize you, while limiting the likelihood of future success.…