Know The Signs That You Are A Fully Grown Mature Adult

We all know someone in our lives, who appears to be a fully grown adult complete with family, holding down a responsible job. But behind the scenes, their minds and actions remain immature. This is the “man child,” or the woman who can’t control their emotions, thus unpredictable.

So what does it mean, for adults to be considered mature.

Being a mature individual, doesn’t refer to just squeaking by making a living, being able to pay the bills on time, attempting to be a good parent or spouse.

But rather, …

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The Need To Be Politically Correct In This Cynical World

Once upon a time not too long ago, being “politically” correct meant speaking with consideration towards others. Such as telling people what they wanted to hear. Now, it’s reduced to acting and speaking in a manner that’s dictated by the political left wing elite. Those who has self designated themselves as the arbitrators of what’s proper or not.

Wishing Merry Christmas for instance is no longer politically correct. This because of the potential of insulting non-Christians and atheists.

So we’re now told the proper term is Happy Holidays. Marketers now …

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How Our Primate Brain Craves For External Stimuli

What the brain does from the exact moment we wake is it battles itself from boredom. So we drink coffee to stay alert, constantly look at our smartphones for signs of life, surf pointlessly on the Internet. We’re constantly searching for any known stimulants which will entertain our mind.

The conscious brain has no particular aim. It just floats aimlessly, it’s not directed.

What it’ll continuously do is revisit previous experiences, scan for new exciting opportunities, attempt to solve problems, which kicks in the creativity juices.

These days, the boredom …

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How To Survive The Holiday Season If You Are Single

Do you realize that the latest stats show there are now 45.2% percent of adults in North America who are single. So becoming singular appears to be a growing trend. Although going solo is a life choice, it’s the holiday season that isolates this solitary, that you are single.

Once the festivities kick off, it should become a snowball of great joy with friends and family. To celebrate the tradition. But it’s not always the most joyous time of year for those who are single. This is when one doesn’t …

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The Need To Avoid The Drama Queens In Your Life

What we all have are these sensitive overly dramatic people in our lives, you know the ones who thrive and feed on constantly creating petty chaos wherever they go, intentional or not. Once you recognize them, what you want is to steer clear away from their theatrics.

These individuals do so to garner attention back to themselves, once they begin feeling deprived, feasting on their low self esteem.

What they’re capable of is creating instant drama on demand in everything they do, or wherever they go.

They thrive on adding …

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Confessions Of An Online Digital Multitasking Workaholic

Working too much and nothing much else, these are the mundane people you see walking around everyday with bags under their eyes and a phone stuck on their ear, creating their own form of zombie. They are workaholics, which is now actually defined as a condition.

Working at ones job excessively can cause conflict as well as friction at the expense of one’s health and relationships. If left untreated, it can potentially lead towards burnout, depression and ultimately illness.

A workaholic is simply unable to disengage themselves from their work, …

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Do You Have The Symptoms Of Addiction To Social Media

Realize the influence that social media now has on our daily lives. What it does is smacks us right in the face in awe after reading someones latest post. Perhaps someone we know. Perhaps someone more brilliant, more prettier or more well off than we are.

This could be their latest job promotion, a new car, their new baby, grandchildren, engagements, holidays, breakups, the food they ate. Everything.

It can get extremely overwhelming, once you get sucked into their vortex. Their extremely picture perfect plastic personas. Then at times jealousy, …

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Live Your Life Through The Lens Of Someone In Love

We constantly use our minds to make ourselves feel bad. We ruminate over an embarrassing moment that happened a week ago. We beat ourselves up by saying one thing, then doing another. As we worry about the future, what we’re doing is harming our ability to live a full life today.

What if, instead, we decided to ask ourselves, “How much better can I make myself feel at this moment?”

What’s known, is our brains are just as adept at making us feel better, as it is making us feel …

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