How Social Validation Influences Us To Behave How We Do

For the most part we’re all conformists, as we’ll do what everyone else is doing. We’ll just follow the crowd and try to fit in, all while not willing to admit it. It’s estimated just 1 out of 10 people, will engage in a behavior that’s considered to be contrary to the norm, or what’s socially unacceptable.

What we see is the “law of the norm” operating in groups, in organizations, during meetings, and in day-to-day public life. In each of these situations, there seems to be a certain standard. …

How To Radiate Beauty Without The Need To Look Beautiful

The strikingly beautiful are placed on a pedestal, become idols, because of their stunning gift of god luminance. What the varying degrees of physical beauty in one’s eyes reflect, is that perception. The mortals then become their disciples, falling into a trance.

The pretty people out there, draws a certain sense of awe in those around them, almost becoming untouchable.

Just as we’ll shine up our shoes, spit polish our cars, trim our lawns to manicured precision. What all this fatal beauty does is provides eye candy appeal for all …

The Course To Heal The Pain Of Your Inherent Suffering

The path needed to begin healing yourself, comes down to a personal choice you truly want. A road where you choose to start piecing yourself together, collecting the scattered fragments to make yourself ”whole” again. To decide it’s within you to draw out this inner strength to heal.

No one else can do it for you. It’s your choice to explore and draw upon your inner will, that you want to restore yourself.

Some wounds are embedded so deeply, there’s no amount of external help or extended care capable of …

How To Remove The Dark Passenger That Is Your Inner Critic

Yes, it’s all about you, the serial poster on Facebook and Twitter. You look extremely happy and full of yourself in your selfies, as you blare out countless posts about your gratifying fulfilled life. You cry how happy you are as a hip citizen of the earth.

But what that glossy eyed look and smile on your face of your latest photo reveals, is a desperation of seeking attention, as you silently shout out for help.

It’s the cry of insecurity, that’s most noticeable. What’s revealed is your deep dark …

10 Ways To Stop Taking What Everyone Says So Personally

Are you too sensitive to what people say. Realize that person might just be offering constructive criticism, having a bad day or being sarcastic. It’s not always about you. How you react to their antics, once you think someone makes an offsetting remark, they win.

How someone acts, usually has little to do with you. It has more to do with what their state of mind is.

How they’re feeling, how they were raised, how they happen to deal with their emotions.

But you continue to feel slighted, for things …