Your attitude is the one thing you have complete control over in every life situation, so always make sure it’s a positive one. What’s not realized, is the first thing anyone notices when meeting you is your attitude, which determines what they think or say to you.
This could be at home, work, or in society. Also know the one thing no one can change in you is this attitude, as it’s in your control.
Keep this in mind, as you’ll always need to be mindful how you come across, and adjust it accordingly.
Always make sure you’re projecting a good vibe. Realize attitude, is how your day ends up.
You Are What You Vibe
Once you force yourself to think happy pleasant thoughts, what you emit are those happy thoughts.
When you’re in a miserable depressing mood of doom and gloom, people sense that, resulting in receiving a poor attitude.
If you have thoughts of fear, they’ll become scared. Once you think sickly thoughts of illness, you’ll come down with a cold.
If you constantly think failure, what’s certain is you will fail. What wallowing in self-pity results in, is everyone avoiding you.
Having A Good Attitude
This isn’t advocating having a “Pollyanna” attitude towards all your problems, as life isn’t that easy.
What’s proposed, is having a positive attitude rather than a negative one, remaining hopeful things will turn out in your favour.
Mental attitude, is the strength we hold in our minds. Realize reality can be altered in our favour, by a single positive thought.
When it comes to nutrition, the adage is you become what you eat. When it comes to leadership, it’s you become what you think.
Contrary to what most believe, outside influences shouldn’t determine your happiness or success. It’s instead how you react to these outside influences.
The key becomes controlling your reaction, when it comes to those external forces. What it takes, is giving your reaction conscious priority.
Becoming More Mindful
You know by now if something will go wrong, it will. Life is imperfect. Once things don’t go your way, keep everything in perspective, and relax.
When there’s chaos and uncertainty, what most will do is surrender and sulk, the masses will get cynical and panic.
What having a positive self-confident attitude does, is helps you achieve more. It forces everyone to be drawn towards you.
People want to associate with those who has an inviting upbeat outlook, to perk up their own drab lives. Those who constantly complain, are always avoided.
Develop A Positive Attitude
One of the key traits all leaders share, is they display a positive self-confident attitude under any circumstance. The thought of potential failure, isn’t an option.
Having a positive cocksure attitude, is the key to becoming a winner. This is similar to the confidence all successful professional athletes has.
Although their skill set may at times be inferior to others, it’s the constant positive attitude they display, rather than having a losers mentality.
Having this positive attitude, needs to be self generated and nurtured on a daily basis, protecting it from being sapped by negative influences.
This begins by aligning with those who has similar vision, while not allowing the “negative Nellie’s” of the world, to drain out your energy.
Always tap into this positive energy wherever you go, whatever you do. Mindfully use your determination, to always move yourself and your interests forward.
Avoid All Negative Energy
Everyone has bad days, when things just don’t go right. Once you’re spiralling downwards into a rut, change your routine. Do something that’s uplifting.
Once you see yourself falling into unproductive behaviour, immediately put a stop to it by addressing it. Never allow it to fester.
This begins by you actively listening, and addressing it. Often, once someone is heard, potential issues can be avoided, as everything gets back on track.
Injection Of Attitude
What successful leaders will do, is constantly inject this positive behaviour into themselves, as no one else will. Never count on anyone to do it for you.
At home, parents need to persistently be instilling a positive attitude in the household, in their children, otherwise chaos may ensue.
Everyone needs to wear this mantel, albeit reluctantly at times. This is however part of the responsibility of being an adult and a leader.
Always be improving your guidance skills, beginning with how you react to external situations yourself, especially the negative ones.
Then you can begin to witness the culture evolving around you, improving in your favour.
Always Associate With The Right People
Avoid associating with those who constantly has a bad attitude. Your mindfulness and integrity won’t grow, unless you converse with positive people to implement your own growth.
Associate with those who displays a willing “can-do” attitude, who you know will fit into the spirit of your company.
As you meet new people on a daily basis, choose to just relate with those who has a gung-ho forward demeanour, regardless of the situation.
Attitude Is Altitude
Attitude is the one thing you cannot instill in someone, it’s something that can’t be told. They either have a good attitude, or they don’t.
Find people who shows spark, with the willingness to adapt, as everything else can be worked out.
What successful leaders will constantly tell you, is a poor attitude is the one behaviour they can’t change.
Looking Upwards
A positive attitude carries you over the rough patches, as it will energize you, elevating your results to greater heights, to match your potential.
Whether you need an attitude adjustment daily, weekly or just occasionally, never forget it’s your attitude that determines your altitude. Never allow anyone, to bring yours down.