Rare now are those times when two people on this planet remain together forever for a lifetime, in this day and age. There’s boredom, incompatibility, inconceivable differences, affairs, the list is lengthy why breaking up with a significant other occurs.
There’s more serious valid issues such as infidelity, physical or emotional abuse, resulting in one losing interest in the other.
This occurs once realizing you both don’t really share any common goals, or don’t have similar interests any longer.
The bliss and the love at first sight that originally occurred, is now cured by a second look.
At times, some will give up on the other they may even still have feelings for, without actually attempting to make things work out.
There are countless reasons why someone will end a romantic relationship with you.
5. Things Aren’t Moving Fast Enough
For guys, in the attempts to hopefully get physically intimate with their girlfriends sooner, they will decide to put pressure on them.
This by saying thing’s aren’t moving along fast enough for their taste, and as a result they may break up and move on.
Instead of they waiting for the relationship to follow its course, or attempt to understand their girlfriend’s reasons, what they’ll initiate is a breakup to avoid being dumped first.
4. It’s Getting Too Serious
This stems from the fear of commitment, it’s the men who’ll often choose to end a relationship based on it getting too serious for them. Boys just want to have fun.
Although the key objective for most women is to get married sometime in their life, most won’t seek a strong long-term commitment during the early stages of the relationship.
What men who fit this profile should be is honest with themselves, and admit they’re not really looking for a romantic loving relationship, and not want to be tied down.
3. I’m Too Busy For A Relationship
Generally, getting your priorities straight is a good idea, such as getting an education and career, traveling and saving money.
But suddenly deciding to break up with someone you like because your career is more important, as you want to give your undivided attention to your job, is a bad idea.
Despite the new promotion or raise you just got, having balance in your life is important, such as a relationship.
It’s a vital component for your livelihood, sanity, and health, by enjoying spending quality leisure time with your loved ones.
2. “I Don’t Like How You Dress”
There’s nothing that yells “shallow” and insecure more than not liking the clothing style your partner chooses to wear. This however is a common reason why women will breakup.
They find their boyfriends aren’t into fashion, so they won’t wear the trendy hip clothes they do, so they could both be styling.
So if that’s the case ladies, what you can do is give him a crash course on what to wear.
If he’s worth it, you can start buying or showing him the apparel that are currently fashionable at the mall. Rest assured, he’ll most likely wear them.
1. “I Don’t Like Your Friends”
It’s thought to be a miracle for the human race to survive this long as a single species, as there’s now over 7 billion inhabitants on this planet.
All with different unique personalities, cultures, customs, likes and dislikes, it’s possible for one human to not like another human.
The number one reason some will break up with their partner is they don’t like their friends or family, or their family doesn’t like them.
This is passive-aggressive behavior which has a simple solution, which is to just change your attitude and be more open.
The key is to just adjust and adapt your thinking, as we humans are not all alike. What we need to do however, is learn to just get along.