What people naturally gravitate towards are those they like, rather than someone who they don’t like or are turned off by, this by instinct. The ones who are avoided are those who are smug, standoffish, arrogant, or don’t come across as cool and hip. It’s a natural reaction to be attracted to likeable people, who comes across as genuine.
We can instantly improve our likeability factor ourselves by being more friendly, open, and down to earth. What we want is to present ourselves to others as approachable as possible, with an attitude that’s nonjudgmental. What matters is giving a good first impression, such as greeting others with a smile, while projecting the sense that you’re well adjusted with yourself.
9. You’ve Defined Your Purpose In Life
Begin by getting rid of all the “should of,” “would of,” and “ought to” out of your vocabulary and mindset, and your life. Be definitive on what you want to do, and then prove it to yourself and the world by doing it. Begin by rolling up your sleeves, buckle down, and do the hard work that’s required.
What procrastinating does is leads you nowhere and astray. What’s known is that those who spends their time thinking too much, pondering what they should be doing, will stumble along with their lives. To be more likeable and attractive, show the world that you have determination, courage and purpose.
8. Strive To Become More Successful Everyday
For those who are determined to become successful, what they do is instantly attract other like minded individuals who are success and like orientated as well. Once reaching this threshold of getting better, show your gratitude by sharing this success with your new friends.
What you’ll then become is a natural magnet to attract the right attention that you want, from those who are equally as relevant and interesting as you, or from those who are better off than you currently are.
7. Always Be Honest With Yourself By Telling The Truth
What someone who’s likeable projects is the aura that they’re a genuine person, and they deliver the “real goods” every time and under every circumstance. Those who are genuine, has come to terms with what they’re capable of, and will apply it realistically to the real world around them.
So just be more honest with yourself and others by telling the truth in every life situation, even if it hurts, or it damages your relationship with them. Then the right people who are meant to be in your life, will gravitate towards you.