We all at times have met certain individuals who are dynamic, they’re naturally friendly and affectionate, this without a word spoken, you adore them. In a room full of strangers, they enter, the room goes silent. They become friends with everyone instantaneously.
They’re the ultimate people person, someone who’s so unbelievably charismatic and sincere, that they can charm the pants off anyone. What these socially empowering individuals attracts is grandeur, as others are magnetically drawn to their presence.
They’re natural born killers of the charm. They instantly earn the trust along with the respect of the masses, whom they may of helped in the past. Anything that they do, a plethora of people will support them, this since they know exactly how to maximize their social command.
If you yourself commands these social graces, the skills and the know how to dictate, what you’ll reach is ultimate self authority. This empowerment propels you to turning yourself into an outstanding successful individual.
If you want to be, are, on the path to becoming this type of people person, then you’re the select few who are working towards greatness. All you need to do is equip yourself with the basics.
Be As Genuine As Possible
What hypocrisy does is it drags you down quick. So be genuine, realistic, nice to others at all times, and show that you really care and are interested in them.
Once anyone perceives, gets a hint that you’re in it for yourself, are an absolute egotist, has selfish intent, then you may as well just kiss this self empowerment goodbye.
Listen More Than You Speak
To earn respect, the adoration and the trust of others, make it a point to listen to all of their issues regardless of what they are. Listen to their problems and sympathize with them.
Don’t just nod and hear them out, make sure that you hear behind what they’re saying with your heart and brain. Make direct eye contact, if appropriate, whenever someone is speaking to you.
Listen as if every word they say matters, and it does. You’ll earn points once you do so, that there’s a confidante in you.
Make Sure That You Laugh Out Loud
This doesn’t mean to force yourself to laugh out every time someone cracks a joke, albeit you don’t find it humorous, as that’s a testament on how phony you come across.
What laughing out loud means is finding humor, the funny side of things, and not coming across as always being too serious and drab. Someone who has a genuine sense of humor has the tact and the introspect to express the funnier things in life, which attracts crowds and are adored by them.
Never Forget Who You Are
In the process of fluttering around wanting to become a social butterfly, what you might forget is remaining true to yourself, not allowing anyone to push you over or around.
Keep in mind that you always need to be grounded, that you love and value yourself first, this before anyone else. If you portray that you respect yourself, then you’re worthy of affection from others, and people will flock towards you in droves.
Exercise Random Acts Of Kindness
You’re not expected to be over the top generous and donate all of your excess savings to charity or to your favorite cause. But displaying genuine acts of kindness matters. This can be something as simple as giving someone a smile, showing genuine concern on their welfare, which just costs empathy.
In school, the first thing we’re taught is to make the needed adjustments to show kindness and respect to others, our schoolmates, and that’s adopted throughout our lives. So make sure that you perform good deeds, and your genuine generosity will show through.
Contact Those You Know
Those who you knew in the past, those who you grew up with, as you don’t have to say goodbye to them. Because of social media and technology, we can now do so easily.
So why not go back and relive the good old days and reflect. Flip through your yearbook and look for those who you want to see, revisit again. Add these old acquaintances that you never had the chance to know better, and ask them to be your support peer.
Continuously Be Developing Your Personality
Do you come across as a bit grumpy and generally morose. If so, then what’s the point of behaving this way, why is it a part of your persona.
It can just be a process to getting rid of these poor traits and habits, and it’s entirely possible to do so. What this poor self image does is it hampers your growth and appearance.
Be As Confident As Possible
Develop the confidence to be able to walk over to the other side of the room, or to the opposite sex, and have the ability to introduce yourself to someone, anyone, others who you’d like to meet, and then say hello. The key is coming across as confident, and not cocky or aloof.
Practicing Restraint And Control
If you’re ever angry, take a step back and never snap judgement at anyone. Never throw a tantrum. Stay as calm and collected as possible. Take full control and responsibility of the situation, while transforming that energy into something that’s more productive and passionate.
Nurture All Of Your Relationships
Including all of your current relationships, your friends, family, and coworkers, as they’re extremely precious and you shouldn’t neglect them. Always communicate and be in contact with them, do things together.
What you have is the power and the ability to use your new found self empowerment in becoming a better more respected individual. Then it can become a win-win situation for everyone.