It’s been said there’s always a chemical combustion, a connection some feel when meeting someone new. The matching of two souls crossing paths in life, which connects on a cellular level of bliss. Do these fairy tales exist, stories of exhilarating enchanting true love, or are they just fantasy.
From an early age, most have gone through countless relationships, one night love affairs and crushes on a schoolmate.
Falling in and out of love, becoming disappointed, ultimately believing that love sucks and doesn’t exist.
Finding a soulmate then becomes a rumour. A fable for novelists who taunts broken hearts of the hopeful.
Most generalize a soulmate as someone who thinks similar to them, and will stick with them forever through thick and thin, without judgment.
Many believe they’re completely compatible, their hearts and brains ticking on the same exact time clock.
There are certain misconceptions when it comes to soulmates, usually because of wishful thinking and idealism.
Soulmates Are Best Friends
Soulmates usually become your best friend first, before things get romantic, and ultimately becoming sexual partners. Slow and steady.
These deep connections can also exist with family members or friends, which are referred to as soul friends.
Soulmates understand you without a word spoken, often at times better than you understand yourself, so they can empathize with you.
Soulmates Are Mirror Reflections
What they know are your strengths, dreams, insecurities, and flaws. This to help you along, as well as helping themselves grow to their fullest potential.
You can rely on them to be completely level and honest with you at all times.
This can occur to the point of they attacking your most sensitive feelings, only because they care about your welfare that much.
Soulmates Become Your Spiritual Catalysts
Although soulmates may not be able to complete you, what they do is push you to become the best version of yourself you can possibly be.
The reason why they’re not willing to complete you, is because it’s your human obligation to fulfill your own potential.
It’s your obligation and responsibility to consummate who you become as a person.
Soulmates Teach You
What soulmates will teach you are usually intentional, but are more often life lessons and experiences which are mutually shared.
Since they understand you at your molecular level, soulmates become powerful confidants you can trust.
They help you through the tough times, while inspiring you to do your best.
Soulmates Make Instant Connection
This from the very first instance you met. You gaze into each others eyes, and you immediately know you’ve spent numerous past lives together with one other.
There’s an instant spark, as something between both of you click, as though you’ve been best friends and known one other forever, getting deja-vu flashbacks.
Soulmates Vibrate On The Same Frequency
What you both give off is the same equal vibration, as all that’s needed is just a glance to understand what the other is thinking. Even a photo can do this.
This goes beyond saying your soulmate shares all your likes, tastes, dreams, and pursuits, but also shares all your deeper life values and beliefs.
You both understand one other on a molecular DNA level.
Soulmates Offer Unconditional Love
You both love each other unconditionally without judgment, always supporting whatever each other does, whatever action is taken, without questions asked.
Although it’s not always possible to be together at all times, there are never feelings of suspicion or a lack of trust.
Despite how you both behave, the love can never become divided by anyone or anything.
Your soulmate is not perfect, as they may have annoying flaws, strange quirks and habits, but that’s just surface dust as their core beauty shines deeply through.
Soulmates Can Be Difficult To Identify
At times, when first meeting one other, the spark might now always be there, the love at first glance may be vacant.
Usually on first sight, that instant spontaneous chemistry doesn’t always ignite, remaining blind to discovering each other.
Soulmates will often appear in various disguises, or are currently in a relationship with someone else.
Soulmates At Times Don’t Always Stay Together
Soulmates may not remain with one another forever, which always isn’t a bad thing.
Yet we like to believe they’ll be with us until the end of time, usually because it’s a secure sentimental thought.
But fate at times has different plans in store. Life happens, people move on, people pass away.
At times soulmates will just be there for the season, just for the party. Only for the fortunate few, they are there for a lifetime. Regardless, enjoy the ride.
So Where’s My Soulmate Then
You may or may not have found your soulmate yet, or maybe you don’t have the capacity to find one in this lifetime.
You know your exact state of time travel in your life, and maybe this journey this time, you’re destined to live it alone.
At times, life will make you wait for reasons you can’t comprehend, but are for reasons which are for your own good.
On the other hand, you may not feel you have the room to share your life at the present moment.
Maybe it’s meant for your soul to mature through the process, by cultivating self-love this time around.
That you would rather look internally in your life right now, instead of externally for love.
They May Be Right There
Some will journey through life not realizing the possibility they’ve already met their soulmate.
They live their lives separately, haphazardly, not realizing they’re just overlooking “The One.”
What they continuously do is chase the divas or alphas, the unrealistic ideals of what their true soulmate should be.
They are haunted by the demons, the fantasy shadow of someone they could never get. Someone out of their league.
So realize whether your soulmate may already be in your life right now, waiting for you to come to your senses.
Life is an unpredictable journey, one however that we ultimately travel alone.
We think to become a functional human, we need to find our soulmate, to start a family, earn a living, and die happy.
Life however always doesn’t work out as planned.