What we’re living in is a radically different reality right now than just a few years ago, even last month. The life we projected with all its hopes, the dreams and the relationships we had are now filed away in the archives of what happened, or what could of been.
What attempting to preserve these memories does, is it deters our progress from moving forward.
We quickly shift into a completely different station of life, mulling over the “what could of been,” with endless analysis, mourning and regretting, which brings little comfort or solution to our soul.
The more we attempt to recreate the past, the more we find ourselves getting drawn into the traps of ego much like quicksand.
Our energy level begins to plummet into an entanglement of confusion and struggle.
Instead, embrace what’s appearing in your life at this moment right now. Look for new signs to re-frame things, find new methods to improve.
Look Inward For Outward Success
Look inward, drink deep from the spring of life and mind. Allow all of the timeless wisdom along with the healing energy of sacred teachings to wash over, renewing your energy.
Develop a dialogue with yourself, the divine spirit, and ask for guidance and clarity. Stay current in the moment while allowing the answers to flow to you, through circumstance.
When action is required, indicated, then do it. Once change opens up to you, continue to move forward. Once the doors close, don’t attempt to go back or try to break it down.
At times, what we’re required is to spend time living in the in-between, learning to let go while needing to take control, the need to understand logically.
In times like these, what we need to ask ourselves is what we really want.
The reasons why, as we surrender the need to know how things will turn out. What we need is to be current, remain patient, and be as still as possible.
To Manage Change
You could ask the Universe for an explanation, to help you understand the why and the how of the senseless tragedies life presents. Invariably, the answer is always one cryptic word “trust.”
Never before, the need to trust has been more important for our well-being than right now.
Outside of ourselves, the entire world is going through a cycle of change.
As we’re experiencing it at the microscopic level, wilfulness along with the ego needs to be eliminated on a global scale, to make space for a new order of humility and trust.
The Need To Band Together
You are an extremely powerful being and soul, but what you lack is the will to remember the pain.
There’s nothing wrong with you that remembrance won’t heal, much like a survivor who’s buried the agony of trauma beneath a layer of amnesia.
Do so until you’re ready to process it, to chose not to remember everything at once. Once we proceed along the path you’re shown, more is revealed to you.
Through the integration along with the healing of each memory which surfaces, reclaim its power and wholeness.
During this period of transition, there are a few guidelines to keep you on track.
Remain Detached
Once we become emotionally attached to an outcome or cause, we then become vulnerable to the trappings of the ego.
Always acknowledge your feelings while surrendering them to the Universe, to remain aligned with your life source.
Set Defined Boundaries
What social pressure attempts is it tries to make us comply to the expectations of others. What defining your personal boundaries does, is it preserves your power.
You’re not obligated to accommodate or please anyone, so instead, what your first commitment needs to be, is honour your inner guidance. What your truth is in the situation.
Are you compromising yourself just to be accepted, liked, to be nice, to fit in and comply.
Just because it happens to be a good cause, doesn’t mean you have to do it. You can’t find happiness by living your life to please the expectations of others.
Define how far you’re willing to go, and learn to say no beyond that.
“No, I can’t have you as a guest in my house for an entire month.” “No, I can’t have lunch with you today.” “No, I’m not able to volunteer my time.”
Always Remain In The Present
Whenever we begin to feel overwhelmed by the intensity of what the present is, we choose to find refuge in the memories of the past, or the dreams of the future. Doing either won’t serve us that well.
Currency is the only time we have as life only occurs in the right now. Don’t allow your regrets about the past or the fears of the future, to rob you of the gift of staying in the present.
Always Be Listening To Yourself
What you have within you is the power and the wisdom to address all of the challenges in your life. Once you begin to feel overwhelmed, slow down and focus on your body.
Allow the wisdom that’s within to show you what you really want. If you find yourself giving in to all of the requests of others, but feel a huge lump of uncertainty growing in your stomach, listen to it.
Your body is attempting to tell you something, that something is not right.
If you can’t maintain your inner harmony engaging in the activity, then recognize your body’s signals while realigning your personal truth. This is what causes major illness.
Once you listen to your body, what you’ll recognize is the proper timing at the right place where opportunity and desire meet.
What you’ll then find is peace and harmony, allowing yourself to flow forward with ease.