Confessions Of An Online Digital Multitasking Workaholic

Working too much and nothing much else, these are the mundane people you see walking around everyday with bags under their eyes and a phone stuck on their ear, creating their own form of zombie. They are workaholics, which is now actually defined as a condition.

Working at ones job excessively can cause conflict as well as friction at the expense of one’s health and relationships. If left untreated, it can potentially lead towards burnout, depression and ultimately illness.

A workaholic is simply unable to disengage themselves from their work, …

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Live Your Life Through The Lens Of Someone In Love

We constantly use our minds to make ourselves feel bad. We ruminate over an embarrassing moment that happened a week ago. We beat ourselves up by saying one thing, then doing another. As we worry about the future, what we’re doing is harming our ability to live a full life today.

What if, instead, we decided to ask ourselves, “How much better can I make myself feel at this moment?”

What’s known, is our brains are just as adept at making us feel better, as it is making us feel …

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How Our Life Purpose Has Now Been Reduced To Facebook Likes

Self-esteem and worthiness has now gone digital. Many will post what they think is a brilliant image, update, video, selfie, or a share, then hold their breath in anticipation hoping that someone “likes” their post. Then they feel empowered once someone does.

They feel that they’re hip, that they’re relevant, funny and interesting, and not a boring aloof dunce. That they’re one of the cool kids.

Then there’s the feeling of dejection, failure, if they don’t get a single like. What’s wrong with me? Doesn’t no one like or care …

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When Communicating: Stop Talking When I’m Interrupting

Since we are social animals, the biggest part of our lives is to communicate with others. Share and receive thoughts, this by exchanging vital information, understanding the other persons feelings or intent. These are essential skills needed when it comes to connecting, this in business and in every social situation.

So it’s not surprising that it’s misunderstanding that creates a divide, which forces couples to counseling, business deals to fall apart, as it’s responsible for almost everything that people struggle with.

With cooperation, what can occur is both parties to …

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Since Tomorrow Never Comes Act On Your Dreams Today

We are just too busy running around trying to live our lives, trying to arrange our existence for a better tomorrow, to be somewhere other than we are right now. Realize that what learning to be mindful, to be grateful will do is grant you the freedom from the hypnosis of a culture, that’s constantly looking to make oneself be and feel better.

What we all want is to be better off than we currently are, financially, geographically, to have better relationships.

We want to be anywhere rather than right …

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Your Obligation Of Taking Full Accountability Of Your Life

What self improvement stipulates is personal development, you the person continuing to get better everyday. What we need to accept first, is that we’re responsible for everything that has and will ever happen in our lives. To be accountable, as we’re the end result of our current human being.

From the day we are born to right now, this very moment, we’re surrounded by negativity, as it bombards us constantly from every direction.

It begins with our parents, as it’s usually “the blind leading the blind.” They’re imperfect people themselves, …

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Things Money Can’t Buy In A World That’s Obsessed With It

Having money in pocket is an obsession. We go to school, enroll in post secondary education, all to get the best paying job we can, all for the acquirement of this money. Money buys things, buys status, everything that we need from food, clothes, cars to houses, including love.

Money makes the world go around, there’s even a song about it. The number one thing on almost everyone’s wish list is to having more money.

Having more money is thought to solve all and every issue and malady that people …

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9 Ways On How To Make Yourself More Likeable To Others

What people naturally gravitate towards are those they like, rather than someone who they don’t like or are turned off by, this by instinct. The ones who are avoided are those who are smug, standoffish, arrogant, or don’t come across as cool and hip. It’s a natural reaction to be attracted to likeable people, who comes across as genuine.

We can instantly improve our likeability factor ourselves by being more friendly, open, and down to earth. What we want is to present ourselves to others as approachable as possible, with …

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