There are plenty of intelligent and well educated people, who are unable to create the type of life they want. They eventually surrender, consumed by despair. They fail to reach the potential they have, as they’re held hostage by the environment they live in.
Why does this occur. They have creativity, precise designs for their life, but no method of distributing their hopes.
They then feel doomed, as they remove the dreams from their conscious input, as it becomes difficult to absorb data beyond their senses.
If we’re to be successful in life, or just survive to be human, what we need is a better world view of ourselves.
We also need to understand how to utilize information, and a way of determining if this information is valid or accurate.
Knowing What We Do
Since experimenting is often beyond our control, the only laboratory we have is to test out our ideas by living our lives, by using our bodies, careers, and our relationships.
There are some aspects which are beyond these processes, but we generally have greater control over our lives than we do over the outside world.
How can we reply to the needs of others, if we don’t understand our own human frailty.
How can we be certain, we actually know whatever it is we think we know.
Consider we can increase the accuracy of our thoughts, by observing what our interactions are with our senses.
The Health Of Our Bodies
The health of our body, is a byproduct of our daily behaviour. The laws of physics are obeyed. We are governed by calories in and calories out.
There are some who are born into poverty, more disadvantaged than others, yet reach success.
If you’re wanting to succeed yourself, you need to emulate what they do, and keep your mind away from those who are negative.
There’s no obligation to meet culturally determined standards of beauty, but just feel healthy enough to meet your own values.
The best way of knowing is by you standing in front of a mirror. Determine if you find yourself and your body attractive.
If not, then you have a bit of work to do, most likely physically and emotionally.
Our Life Work
What you need to do is balance your income with your expenditures. It’s possible to be content and at peace in any situation.
If you’re miserable at work or how you live your daily life, then it’s up to you to get a new job or change your attitude.
We know people who claim they’re cursed, or have bad luck their entire lives, is living a life of illusion.
When it’s actually their lack of courage, drive, and emotional flexibility which keeps them from having a happier existence.
To Attract Abundance
The flow of money is based on a few things, including how we service our communities, our motivation, which reveals what we’re worth.
We also need the discipline and intelligence, of knowing how to manage our finances properly.
Creativity, energy, empathy, honesty, determination, taking risks, all factor in.
We can always make more money, or develop the ability of finding more joy within our current financial levels.
Without finding peace, the joy and the passion in our lives will elude us.
Our Relationships
The reality when it comes to our relationships, is you can only have the things you’re able to afford. The coin is health, intelligence, passion, confidence, and self respect.
Most people, however, will get into trouble because they’re attracted to those who are more attractive than they are, and won’t be honest about it.
Women will always complain what all men want is beauty and sex. While what men complain about, is all women want is just power and money. We’re just genetically wired that way.
The only difference being that beauty and power, will vary in scope symbolically across various cultures and time.
The sooner you stop complaining, the faster you’ll be able to decide the level of beauty or power, you’re willing to manifest in your life.
Life isn’t fair, and both genders think the other is somehow attempting to manipulate the game to their advantage.
The less successful or unattractive that a man or woman is, the less they’ll believe what their roles are.
Getting Motivated To Do More
There are certain truths we humans realize, and that’s we’re generally wise, strong, good natured, and spiritual. But we can also be dishonest, lazy, confused, and childish.
Why should anyone else, the world, our spouse, children, friends or neighbours, listen to what we have to say if we can’t deal honestly with ourselves.
In cinema, drama is always created by finding a flaw in the main characters health, career, or relationships.
Then the plot teaches this character a lesson they need to learn, in order to get better, to heal, to become a hero.
In the world of advertising, almost every product that’s marketed, appeals somehow to either health, sex, or power. The reason being, every human is somehow flawed by these needs.
To Balance Our Lives
What usually happens, is one of these areas always gets out of balance and needs repair, which has always been the primary motivation in human history.
If we can’t communicate effectively with our own psyches, then how can we understand one another. Mastery is a road and not a final destination.
We all can’t be millionaires, be movie star beautiful or be ruggedly handsome, in order to progress towards clarity.
All we can do is take responsibility. We need to admit all that we want is happiness, health, and love, with who we are.
To grow forward with discipline and joy, towards a future we can legacy.
What we learn along the way is the truth about ourselves, and the truth can set you free.