Why We Go Through Life Thinking We Don’t Fit In Anywhere

These daunting thoughts usually strikes us late at night, in the dark stormy recesses of our unsettled mind. These are the times you may feel perplexed, about this whole thing called life. Where do I fit in exactly at this exact moment in time and age.

We ponder this in wonderment when we’re alone, usually sipping a glass of liquid courage, for stimulation.

We dwell back at the context of everything we’ve accomplished in our life, and wonder how we’re connected to it all.

These are the common thoughts of many, so never feel alone, stay grounded, don’t drift away.

You Are Never Alone

The consolation is there are plenty of individuals around the globe right now, who are in the same exact situation.

The same state of feeling completely vulnerable and pointless. How helpless you feel, how empty your life has become.

Without a doubt, you may feel the world around you is shifting, passing you by, forgetting about you.

Those who are in this predicament, are looking to explore and develop new and different ways, of doing and viewing these issues.

Trying to find new perspectives and angles to view their life. Discover new ways, to make a living and enjoy themselves.

Change Is Inevitable

As these changes evolve, many are having difficulty on deciding where they fit in the big picture.

This jigsaw puzzle called life, which once snapped easily together into place, is no longer labelled or clearly defined. Life has become challenging.

It remains comforting to know and easier to decide what your own remnants are, provided they remain stagnant.

You also realize, life is a forever moving target. If you don’t keep up, you get left behind.

So how do you proceed to seize the tremendous opportunities fate leaves at your wake.

Is it even possible to skip from confusion to interfusion, from feeling separated to being linked in and being connected.

The simple answer is to just think bigger, broader, stay connected and create your own new world.


Just Think Bigger

What we’ll often do, is limit our thinking by placing labels on ourselves, along with those around us. We judge and generalize everything.

I am a minority in this country, you are Canadian, he is wealthy, they are elderly, etc.

By typecasting these different classifications, it becomes easy to create an environment where you don’t fit in anywhere.

The more we categorize people, the less likely we’ll have something in common with them. The more likely we begin feeling out of place.

But, if we begin to think bigger, broaden our horizons and view of the world, it becomes easier to see how we can fit into the abstract. The different colours of the world.

Once we think to ourselves, “Hey, I’m human,” or “At least I’m alive,” does is it expands the spectrum of possibility.

Suddenly, we can then fit in anywhere. We then find everyone and every place, is linked together somehow.

Get Plugged In And Connected

The world has shrunk while our minds have expanded. This with the development of technology, such as the Internet and wireless communication.

People you would have never interacted with in the past, suddenly are now available at a moments notice and a finger tap away.

This access of individuals, information, and other cultures expands and connects the world whenever we want to, wherever we are.

We have immediate retrieval to this data, which makes it possible to realize there’s a massive variety of people around us.

These interactions gives us insight into how others live, work, and play. We can watch and instantly learn about what life is like, when they live elsewhere in the world.

We find although people may think and look different, we’re a lot alike.

Instant Connectivity

This link with others is now less informational and more interactive. We can go on the Internet, and connect with others through social media in an instance.

We can immediately plug into people who are halfway around the world, or next door and communicate.

We’re able to find long lost friends in different countries, connect to others who have similar interests, challenges and beliefs.

We can do so with a simple click of a mouse, or a tap of a screen and do so right now.

Through this common infrastructure now at our disposal, we’re able to access a wealth of information which plugs us into where we can fit in.

Creating Our Own Puzzle

Once we begin thinking bigger, what we’re doing is associating ourselves with a wider spectrum of people and things.

Getting connected helps you interact with them and their principles, displaying you are vital and part of the tribe.

It’s no longer a burden trying to fit into the puzzle someone else has created.

So why not just define your own existence you’re wanting to portray, and create your own profile.

It then becomes easier to situate where you fit into this maze, on your terms. The script you wrote for the world to view.

It doesn’t need to be difficult once you open up your world, by thinking unique, by displaying your creativity.

Forging Your Own Path

Regardless of what type of existence you’re wanting to create, there are thousands of others similar to you, who are wanting or thinking the same.

They’re scattered around the globe, having distinctly different backgrounds than you. But once you expand your horizons, that no longer matters.

In all likelihood, there’s someone who’s solved how to get the same existence you’re seeking, and are willing to share the information with you.

Your Own Construction Pieces

You can pick and choose the parts of your life which works best for you, and then blend them with your own ideals.

Then soon, you’ll have created something that’s totally unique, something you can call your own.

You then won’t need to worry about not fitting in anywhere, since you live in your own world you’ve created, on your stipulations.

As this world continues to evolve and transform, the once traditional roles are becoming blurred.

So just think bigger, connect yourself and begin creating your own niche. You’ll then fit in, you’ll be accepted anywhere you go.