Many claim they are lonely, constantly dreaming of love, hoping someone will show up one day and end all the misery and despair in their life. Well, it may not happen anytime soon. It’s not who you know, it’s you, you know. The good news is, you can do it yourself.
Most complain about the lack of love in their life. They feel as if someone, perhaps a past lover, extracted all the love they had out of their soul, and left them empty.
What they’ll do is dwell on those who are long gone. Then they’ll dream of someone perfect suddenly coming into their life, giving them everything they’ve ever wanted.
They’re walking on a tightrope between hope and fear. They’re looking for a relationship to magically appear.
What they’re doing is holding their breath Prince Charming or Princess Diana in a white convertible, will knock on their door, and carry them off their feet to that mansion in the hills.
Then there are others, who are attempting to just survive their bad relationship, which are holding them hostage.
They constantly live in anger and boredom, refusing to get out of the death trap of a relationship they’re in, all for the sake of companionship.
Life Is Similar To Highrise Living
Life is like a highrise building. There are a lot of floors. The parking lot, the first floor, the second floor, all the way up to the penthouse suite.
The higher you live in this building, the easier and brighter life gets. The more friendlier and energetic the people are.
The higher you live, the stronger the vibration, the more love there is.
Now picture this highrise building of life in your mindset, and where you currently live.
Your Station In Life
There’s the underground parking, where you’ll find those in despair, broken people living a desperate life without hope. They thrive on hurting others.
On the first floor is where the majority of humanity lives. They’re content with themselves rather than thriving. They refuse to think on their own, they conform, do nothing to get better.
They go to the job they hate, come home, sit in front of the TV, and overdose on soda and sodium. They don’t dream, as they’re locked into this lifestyle, contempt to survive another day.
Those with dour thoughts of scarcity, fear, revenge, live on the lower floors. Those with low energy, low self esteem, in bad relationships, struggling with negativity all live there.
The higher you live in this highrise, the easier, the more brilliant life gets for you.
Know Where You’re Going
What you want is to live in the penthouse suite. But at this moment, you live your life on the 3rd floor.
You dislike your job, you’re in a bad yet convenient relationship, you’re out of shape and have low energy.
Then one day, you decide you want to raise your vibrational energy, so you could move up to a higher floor.
This is where there’s unconditional love, close genuine friendships, a career you love, all which provides health and wealth. What you want is to join these people.
Moving On Up
So what to do. What you know is where you want to live, but how will you get there? Should you just wait until someone knocks on your door and invites you up there.
Well keep on dreaming, because although it’s possible, that will most likely never happen.
Even if you happen to meet someone who lives in the penthouse suite, you can’t match their energy, you won’t be able to keep up with their whirlwind lifestyle. You’ll get exhausted.
You need to gradually build yourself up. This can only happen by creating more energy in your life by changing your thoughts and behaviour.
You need to start working from the inside out, and unleash you inner power. To surround yourself with empowering information and positive support. To learn to love yourself.
Know Where You Want To Live
You need to personally do whatever you can to work up to the penthouse floor on your own. Don’t bother hoping someone will take you there, as you’ll free fall down the stairs of disaster.
If you don’t do it yourself it’ll never last, you’ll feel like an imposter, you’ll feel you don’t deserve it, and you’ll tumble back to the first floor. You need to build this energy on your own.
Once you begin to generate this power by yourself, is when you’ll attract those people who vibrates at the same high energetic level that you do.
These are those living in the penthouse suite, those who are loving, caring, and on the same wavelength and pulse. Then you’ll know you’ve arrived, wondering what took you so long.
What you want is to meet these people, knowing you have the same outlook in life they do.
The key however, is you need the determination to generate this energy level on your own, as no one is going to help you.
Climbing The Ladder
You may then decide to leave your deadbeat partner at the door, as they can no longer keep up with your new found energy. They’ll eventually leave.
If you’re currently in a bad relationship, do whatever you can to move forward. You’ll know once you make progress, and begin to feel empowered.
Don’t make the mistake of staying with this low energy person, as what they’ll do is just drag you down.
Instead, use your new found energy to find others who are just as willing to move up with you. These new relationships should be motivated to improve their life themselves, just like you.
If they’re not, then don’t carry this anchor on your back, which will only suck the energy out of you. The higher your vibrational energy gets, the easier life becomes.